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Cake day: July 25th, 2023

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  • There are multiple housing problems and they’re all probably way more complicated than anyone wants to acknowledge. The highest priority “housing problem” right now imo is that there are people who don’t have a safe place to sleep at night.

    In order to solve that problem you need

    1. Safe housing to provide to those people
    2. A system for assigning those people to the housing.

    Building/acquiring housing costs money. If the government isn’t doing its job and spending money to solve this problem we need to

    1. Hold them accountable through voting
    2. Take matters into our own hands as a community and attempt to contribute to a local solution in whatever capacity we’re able to contribute (donations, volunteering, organizing). Once we have legitimate trustworthy organizations that are doing a good job solving the problem then we can hopefully proceed by driving more support for them.

    Creating a system to assign individuals to housing is probably the more “difficult” part because there needs to be some sort of consensus on the mechanics of prioritization. I personally think we should prioritize housing for individuals and families with children, but after that I don’t know who we should serve next.








  • Hot take: All criteria used to classify ideas and objects into distinct categories can eventually break down. The only reason to pursue the creation of classification systems is to facilitate communication. If we get to a point where we start throwing chairs at each other I’d argue were no longer willing to communicate, and so arguing about whether something is “this” or “that” is no longer a priority. The priority should become attending to the mental and emotional wellbeing of the individuals in the absence of labels.




  • I’ve been thinking about this a bit more, and I realized that I talk to other people the way I talk to myself. This probably wouldn’t be a problem if I weren’t so critical of myself.

    I think I need to not only put in the effort to reread the things I write when communicating with others, but also to just be kinder to myself in my internal monologue.

    I spend too much time being frustrated inside my own head, and that makes it easy to use that same tone when I’m interacting with other people.

    Thanks for sharing your advice. I think verbalizing my thoughts the way you suggested will be really helpful.



  • Absolutely true, but it’s also more difficult to ask a good question when you don’t know anything about what you’re asking.

    People who know a lot about a topic can ask very good questions about that topic.

    The problem I see with most questions people post online is that they make too many assumptions that their audience will will magically understand the context of their question.

    Good questions require relevant context.

    Determining relevancy requires expertise.

    Expertise comes from experience.

    No matter how many questions you ask and answers you get you’ll never “understand” something until you do it.

    Instead of asking questions like “How do I do X?” people should be asking “I’m trying to accomplish X, I’ve tried Y, but I’m encountering Z. How could I resolve this?”

    I guess my rule is that you should never ask someone a question without first trying to answer it yourself.