• PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de
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    6 days ago

    Are you ready to have an actual conversation

    I thought I was having one. I’m just disagreeing with you on some things and you somehow seem to think that means I’m not engaging. I’m trying.

    Let’s say you go to a bar and there are some Nazis at the next table. You hear them say, “and fuck those communists, they will get what is coming to them”. Are you going to go over there and say, “yeah, fuck those tankies! They’re insufferable authoritarians”? Because all that means is that you’re going out of your way to validate Nazis trying to kill communists and aligning yourself with them. When someone says, “what the fuck, punch those Nazis, don’t validate them” are you going up say, “ergo, communists should be criticized”.

    Woah no and I’m sorry if I’ve given the impression I would do something like that. I consider marxist-leninist communists to be misguided comrades, and I hope you can think of me the same way.

    Hey look it’s that homophobia

    How is that homophobia? I think you’re construing something here.

    It is not coincidental that you ignored the vast majority of what I said, as it was concrete history.

    It is not coincidental that I skimmed this comment as well because it is really fucking long. sorry

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      6 days ago

      I thought I was having one.

      No, you are being self-serving and selective in your responses and have dropped straw men repeatedly. Rather than respond to that when called out, you are just straight-up ignoring most of what is said in response. I don’t care if you are “busy”, you can just not reply and stop saying large swaths of bullshit if you don’t have the capacity to continue. Nobody is making you behave like this.

      And again, you have ignored most of my reply. Including the part where I pointed out that you had ignored my reply, and why I had provided that context in the first place. No acknowledgement from you that any of that has happened. I don’t think it is expecting too much that you demonstrate the most basic aspects of good faith engagement.

      I’m just disagreeing with you on some things and you somehow seem to think that means I’m not engaging. I’m trying.

      I have no idea what you’re talking about. What do you want me to do with you when you just omit most of what I’ve said and ignore it? Do you want me to treat you like someone that is doing that intentionally (i.e. bad faith) or like someone too unaware of what is happening to know that’s counterproductive? How do you treat people that act that way?

      Woah no and I’m sorry if I’ve given the impression I would do something like that. I consider marxist-leninist communists to be misguided comrades, and I hope you can think of me the same way.

      You are doing something like that. You are mindlessly repeating anti-China propaganda, anti-Russia propaganda. The Nazis are your entire social context. They provide consent for the maximum pressure campaigns. They support the coup following Euromaidan, the non-implementation of the Minsk agreements. If you say any of these things to liberals, they only understand it as a confirmation of their racist and xenophobic views in support of domination. And again, they are largely falsehoods or otherwise presented in an absurdly biased fashion.

      I am confident that you are not a comrade yet. You are a liberal that likes some of the things they’ve heard leftists say. But you can’t be a comrade without shedding your liberalism and actually getting involved and learning theory. It is painfully clear that you have not done those things. You might become a comrade eventually, but your confidence despite ignorance will be a serious roadblock, you may never actually get there until you learn how to do some self-crit and ask questions instead of fighting.

      How is that homophobia? I think you’re construing something here.

      You do not see how treating sucking a man’s dick is used homophobically? Did you grow up on Mars? Its context as an insult is straight guys telling other straight guys to do a gay thing. I don’t think you need me to explain this to you. I think if you stepped back and actually did the self-crit I just told you to do, you could figure it out yourself. So go do that. Stop making excuses and stop fighting pointlessly and do some thinking.

      It is not coincidental that I skimmed this comment as well because it is really fucking long. sorry

      It is not very long. It takes 3-5 minutes to read and I have given you no deadlines. If you can’t respond to direct criticisms, maybe you aren’t ready to have these discussions. I think that is probably the case. You should go do some reading and self-crit and come back with questions.